Nemu self reflecton yg bagus banget dari aida azlin dalam link Reflections on Waiting For a Life Partner ini…
Refeksi yang bagus banget…
ada beberapa yg perlu gw highlight dari refleksi pada video tsb, yang meskipun sebenernya udah tau, tapi lebih sering lupa…
- everyone will end up with whom has been already written by allah, far awaay before we entered into this world. Allah wrote your love story. And his love story wrote for you is the best one ever
- What we do while waiting is super important. There are so many books to read, so many place to visit. Dont put your life in a pause because you just waiting for someone, and forget you have allah, you have rasulullah, you have family, etc… When you think that you getting older, no one gonna marry me… Rethink as; allah want me spend more time wit him.
- Dont forget people who already you have in your life. Especially your parents. when you too worry to not getting married, you losE any opportunity you currently have.
- ask yourself, why you really want to get married? if you think tht getting married is haf of the deen and that is sunnah of rasulullah SAW, then think again; are you already did the another half of the deen? are you already practice any other sunnah of rasulullah SAW?
- wathever the reason is, you can do these thing when you are still single. When you think that getting married will make you less lonely, married people feel lonely too. Getting married will not solve any of your problems. put off the expectation on your suppouse, becaues they are just a normal being like yourself. Its not fair to think that people you gonna married to complete your life. You have to complete yourself first, and the right partner will enhance your awesomeness.
- Make dua for this, more than you talk or think about it.(momen ramadhan bisa dipake utk ini, jangan lelah untuk berdoa)
Its not about your time.
Its about Allah’s time.